Why can't I login as Maya?

[Annalee]

Hey Mands and others...

I was checking in on my thread here and I found out -- OOPS I can't Login?

I know you do regular checks and get rid of inactive people and all that but I had come back to the site every now and then when I could to post... however, seeing as you've deleted me, it's very hard to want to come back all the time... So, every notice of absence needs a reason... so I'll let you know my circumstances as of right now.

My father has been admitted into hospital in the last few weeks for life saving surgery... and we had almost lost him - so I was driving to Newcastle which is 6 hours away from where I live to be by his side on my birthday. I hadn't been able to get online to post an absent message, and I thought - nah I'll be ok, I shouldn't be deleted... My dad has to have a triple heart bypass done on Monday, and I will be away again over christmas and most likely new years and spending time with him and the family in the hospital on christmas day.

So, if you want me to continue playing Maya I'm happy to do so - but I'm pretty upset that she was deleted without an email or anything...

[brendan]

Hey Annalee,

Look, I'm sorry, but we've had so many inactive people on the site, mostly a lot of new members who've joined and basically done nothing, and we were getting a little fed up with it. Also, we quite like for threads to move along at a decent pace, and we'd noticed with a lot of people, not just yourself that threads were often lasting about two or three months. That's kind of crazy, especially when it takes someone about 2 or 3 weeks or up to a month to post back to you, it's happened to me once or twice and I've lost my muse for the thread.

Mich did say she had deleted you, along with Marie who may suddenly come back and Bambi {who sort of went awol on us with no reasons given}, and if any of you had wanted back, it would be alright for you to do so. It's just that we've became a little more strict on the activity check thing now and will be doing it once a month, and nobody who checked in, got deleted. Sorry.

That said, sorry to hear about all your troubles, I know what it's like as you know yourself I don't keep good health myself, and sometimes I've had to go days/nights without posting now, because I'm either too sore or too tired to do so.

Hope things improve and hope this answers your question!

[Annalee]

Thanks a bunch guys.

Now I know not to come back again.

[valentin]

Whoa, what's with the hate? We never sent any messages of dislike or anything, its just activity checks have been rigorous to prevent clutter? You're more than welcome to rejoin.. I mean, I would hope you would understand why activity checks are important to keep a board moving/organized.. if not, then you're kind of being unreasonable. By the way, my condolences about your dad. I hope he recovers from surgery...

- Isaac

[carla]

Mands here ^^

Thanks for the support Isaac - we appreciate it. And yes it is kind of important to keep the site moving with regular activity checks, if we'd known the circumstances, then obviously the account wouldn't have been deleted. And you most certainly weren't the only one Annalee. Sorry again!